A couple generations ago employees and candidates thought twice before asking. The mindset of "There is no harm in asking" is prevalent amongst the workforce and it may have reached a point of almost recklessness. Communication is an essential job requirement and today's employers are less flexible in that regard. Knowing how and when to ask makes all the difference.
There are two critical times when asking could hinder or progress your career: negotiating terms for an offer or asking for a promotion/ raise. Let's look at what to do when negotiating for an offer.
When does the negotiation begin? It's, actually, at the moment you submit your application or resume and if you are working with your recruiter it's at the moment you begin the process. With or without a recruiter, the most important aspect of the negotiation is the truth. You must always negotiate from a position of fact and never be dishonest or speculate. Do not jundize the negotiation. Preparation is key and here are five things you must know prior.
Why are looking for new job? Ask yourself a simple question,"In your current role do you see yourself achieving the professional, development and monetary goals that you are seeking within the next two years?" if yes then stay put, if no, then seek a better opportunity. This opportunity could still be at you current organization.
Your base salary. What you earn before bonus and commission.
The three numbers. If they offer a cent less than a certain number you will not regret walking away from the opportunity. That number or less where you will need a day or two to consider. That number which will make you drop everything and start tomorrow.
Where you are interviewing and at what stage. If you have other offers on the table don't beat around the bush. The only reason you should ever hold off accepting an offer within your salary expectations it is because it is not the opportunity you are looking for. Do NOT accept offer letters to weigh out your options. You will end up choosing an opportunity for the wrong reasons.
To work or not work with a recruiter. There are advantages to engaging a recruiter's expertise and service. First you don't actually negotiate with you're future employer and it separates what could be an uncomfortable experience from the relationship you might have with a future employer. Most importantly a recruiter has a wealth of knowledge regarding the process, salaries, your competition and offer negotiations as a whole. The best recruiters may have done this successfully hundreds of times and you may have only negotiated a handful at most.